tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post5045401984287632235..comments2011-09-19T13:21:38.039-04:00Badass Geekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01030944236271663794noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-43213205314800871812011-09-19T13:21:38.039-04:002011-09-19T13:21:38.039-04:00Awww. This is really sweet. :)Susiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00500253887230271444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-89567301288358708892010-08-03T13:42:42.904-04:002010-08-03T13:42:42.904-04:00Wow. I&#39;m 20-something too and my Hubs is trying to finish college - a thing that should be long behind us by now, but, alas, is not. My biological clock is ticking loudly now so I completely understand The Boss here. But for the first time possibly ever, I think you&#39;ve made me realize how my husband must feel. I know he is ready for a baby because he says so, but I also have this intuition that he&#39;s not. After five years of marriage I would have expected a child by now, but, given our circumstances, I can see why Hubs may feel overwhelmed with the idea. Thanks for opening my eyes!Erinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14782956337191738513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-84712316048583931852010-05-03T12:27:56.809-04:002010-05-03T12:27:56.809-04:00My youngest left for school yesterday. He will graduate in a month and then he will be out there, finding his life, and building on the foundation that a good education, a great mom and his imperfect father (me)could give him. He will follow two older brothers and the house will echo with emptiness. <br />Your letter brought back all the memories that I had while we conceived and raised these three men. All I can say to you (really a re-mash of all you write about everyday...)is &quot;Be Here Now!&quot; Now I will scream it...&quot;BE HERE NOW!!!&quot;<br />Got it? Sure you do.camerabangerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04470837510345648897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-16751006635057852762009-12-31T20:46:36.110-05:002009-12-31T20:46:36.110-05:00i love your plog very mutch and i hop from you to read this site and tel me whate you think!!!<br /><br />The site of Abduldaem Al-Khaeel for Scientific Miracles of the Quran &amp; Sunnah is considered to be one of the scientific sites which has the aim to spread culture of scientific miracle through dialogue and to demonstrate tolerance of Islam away from fanaticism and ignorance, also to present the shining and true face of Islam… <br /><br />Therefore we are waiting for you to share with us these wonderful articles and researches on the following link: http://kaheel7.com/eng <br /><br />Don&#39;t miss this opportunity to taste the pleasure of discovering miracles of Qur&#39;an and Sunnah.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-87659500048770722092009-12-26T21:34:45.386-05:002009-12-26T21:34:45.386-05:00that was probably the most truthful and i guess honest thing i have ever read!<br />open minded. Kudos.<br />=]Rosahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17515382838047057902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-91891696953990312692009-12-23T23:28:38.005-05:002009-12-23T23:28:38.005-05:00wow?<br />check me outElley Bellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05376513492586873227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-8644951595076309592009-06-01T17:41:39.499-04:002009-06-01T17:41:39.499-04:00This was absolutely beautiful:) I waited until I was thirty to have my first child and wouldn't change a thing. I am completely present for my kids because I had them when I was ready for them:)<br /><br />What a lovely letter to the little Badass to Be!Bee and Rosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02889046641523000211noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-66841565857498004032009-06-01T06:04:17.427-04:002009-06-01T06:04:17.427-04:00When the time is right, you will be a great dad.<br />And by the way? The parnting thing is TOTALLY worth it. Don't let us carpers fool you. Those little buggers are so great, and you're spot-on about feeling your life change when you hold your child for the first time! It's a tremendous feeling.'cuz I'm the mommy, that's why!http://www.blogger.com/profile/01831041071109831330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-83425385677692757032009-05-30T14:43:47.245-04:002009-05-30T14:43:47.245-04:00Oh wow, it's really amazing that you can reason like this, in such an empathetic and honest way. Biological clocks are seriously bitches, and I still haven't even figured mine out... But it sounds like you're on your way to figuring out what's best for you and your family, and that is really valuable.dariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13435040520710865517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-22758010837826473522009-05-27T20:09:06.375-04:002009-05-27T20:09:06.375-04:00Well said.gingermagnoliahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01422592966223403266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-49639759428957281752009-05-26T08:32:30.726-04:002009-05-26T08:32:30.726-04:00JoyIsEverywhere: Thank you.<br /><br />Heather: There is still time, right?<br /><br />Mrs B: It will be a magical time, whenever it happens.<br /><br />Lola: I sure hope so.<br /><br />Roberto: You are too kind, sir.<br /><br />Chris Mancini: Now if I can just convince The Boss to let me buy more Lego's...<br /><br />Tony: Thanks, man. I appreciate it.<br /><br />Laura: Waiting is the best thing for us right now. We'll both know when we are more ready.Badass Geekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01030944236271663794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-83215459487983234082009-05-24T18:27:21.002-04:002009-05-24T18:27:21.002-04:00That is such a great letter. I am sure your kiddo is going to enjoy reading that someday. My husband and I kept putting things off because we both felt we weren't ready. Both for financial reasons and because of all the things we wanted to do first. Then all of a sudden it hit us and we felt we were ready emotionally, and that was all that really mattered. We about 4 more months to go... I hope we're really ready! You'll know when its time and you'll be glad you waited!Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14856517158944872393noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-78552032188210823942009-05-24T01:18:34.981-04:002009-05-24T01:18:34.981-04:00Dude, that was great - When you do have a baby, he or she will be one lucky one to have you as a father.Tonyhttp://www.lifewithtony.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-69633045348931821482009-05-24T01:15:16.358-04:002009-05-24T01:15:16.358-04:00You will obviously make a wonderful father. And you won't even have to buy any new toys or DVDs. Your kid can just use yours. See, being a geek actually saves you money.Chris Mancinihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06631900305283832613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-4977531419154433502009-05-23T14:35:40.707-04:002009-05-23T14:35:40.707-04:00I hope your future kid appreciates this letter whenever he or she gets around to reading it. We should all be so lucky to have a father who is so honest and loving.Robertohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12444982775852591373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-1546972906141511112009-05-23T14:30:41.883-04:002009-05-23T14:30:41.883-04:00Great letter! You will make a great dad someday.Lolahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07370267947354641941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-31742568739693272732009-05-23T14:14:05.837-04:002009-05-23T14:14:05.837-04:00Wow. This is totally what I've been thinking lately. As a Mrs. I have that whole biological clock thing going too, but I've decided to wait until I can best provide for a baby B.<br /><br />Your list of all the things you're looking forward to made me tear up, thinking about when I will get to do those things. Thanks for putting yourself out there.Mrs. Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16320432718436523149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-16909219705346569522009-05-23T11:36:36.814-04:002009-05-23T11:36:36.814-04:00My daughter is 15 and I still haven't grown up. =DHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09312942310632639442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-79049922945940004582009-05-23T10:18:34.301-04:002009-05-23T10:18:34.301-04:00Love it. Truly.joyiseverywherehttp://joyiseverywhere.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-90933153465095202562009-05-23T06:33:00.254-04:002009-05-23T06:33:00.254-04:00<B>To All:</B> Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. I've been notified that this letter will be featured on a fatherhood website (TheFatherLife.com) in mid-June. I'll give you more information as I know it.Badass Geekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01030944236271663794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-54605364282158420422009-05-22T20:47:17.021-04:002009-05-22T20:47:17.021-04:00You're totally gonna get laid tonight.<br /><br />Haha. Sorry, I couldn't resist a smart-ass remark. But seriously...that was awesome. That's a lucky kid you'll have someday.Notes From the Grovehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05128899075750563820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-8890973136088472492009-05-22T20:13:49.530-04:002009-05-22T20:13:49.530-04:00This was a beautiful letter - I love that you can articulate your reasons into more than just I'm not ready. Having had this same battle with my husband, I'm sure this will make it easier for your wife to wait.sherpamomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03364482109022883447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-79839424700012814752009-05-22T15:54:51.060-04:002009-05-22T15:54:51.060-04:00Wow, babe. That was amazing. You really know how to make a girl bawl her eyes out.<br />And BTW a little warning would have been nice. Here I am sitting at my desk at work, blubbering like a baby. <br />But seriously that letter really touched my heart. I love you so much and know that some day you will be as awesome of a dad as you are a husband.The Bosshttp://theboss-blog.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-70509759235641253632009-05-22T13:20:53.807-04:002009-05-22T13:20:53.807-04:00It is precisely because you are thinking about this, and how it will change you, that will make you an amazing parent!!!Jen Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02559930076183536665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1266499181360266520.post-64003077052213358002009-05-22T13:06:52.466-04:002009-05-22T13:06:52.466-04:00Why you gotta make a girl cry like that? *sniff* You'll make an awesome day when the time comes.GeekByMarriagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05852460217362049044noreply@blogger.com